Sexologist here — I wish more people realized that in actuality, clitorises are basically “baby penises” and penises are basically “elongated clits”. Sexual dimorphism between human genitalia is so minimal. And no, all life does NOT begin as female. We begin as sexless looking aliens. What determines if we are “male” or “female” (or in the rare case “intersex”) is what hormones surge during a certain point during our time in the womb.

I’m a queer adopted healthcare worker who writers in their spare time. I have a MPH degree.