Great article! A big problem is when erotic stories and porn alike goes “oh my god, you’re so tight!” which fuels the grotesque memes and images about women having a “lose vagina” or for whatever reason being compared to messy sandwiches (vagina havers you’ve seen these images of our vaginas being compared to something like a roastbeef sub).

I’m a queer adopted healthcare worker who writers in their spare time. I have a MPH degree.