As someone whose grown up with emotionall immature parental figure and abusive romantic relationships, I frankly had a look of disgust the entire time I read this. I understand this is supposed to be fiction, but holy burrito, there is so much flat out disturbing things in this that clearly comes from "I have never physically been through abuse and I am completely victim blaming here, I am not going to even bother thinking about being empathetic or sympathetic". This pushes frankly pushes dangerous narratives that HARM those trying to get out of abusive relationships. This ENCOURAGES pathological shaming of them.